Is it ever *ok* to cheat?

[Dagney]

Originally Posted by Hime

But what if one of your close male friends has a breakup/divorce? Will you stop being friends?

If one of my existing friends has a life altering relationship change (breakup/divorce/death), we wouldn't change how we feel about that person. Our guidelines start from the point Charles and I started dating, and move forward - friends that existed prior to that point are 'grandfathered in'. Couples friends made after that point - aren't 'eliminated' based on relationship changes - we're just not out looking for single friends to hang out with.