Divorce: perparing for the war

classicman · 01-16-2012, 12:50 AM

Dunno dude ... you gotta disengage from her and start anew.
Have your lil sis BLOCK your ex's number.
Put one foot in front of the other and keep movin'

DanaC · 01-16-2012, 05:53 AM

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Originally Posted by classicman

Dunno dude ... you gotta disengage from her and start anew.
Have your lil sis BLOCK your ex's number.
Put one foot in front of the other and keep movin'

This.

Trace, let her do what she is going to do. Have no contact with her and get on with your life.

Stormieweather · 01-16-2012, 10:43 AM

The only power she has over you is the power you grant her.

As long as you continue to dance the dance, you will stay stuck and in pain. Do what's best for YOU. Do you honestly think reacting to her bs, looking for ways to obtain vengeance, or obsessing over the child is best for YOU?

I've lost a child I loved that wasn't mine. Two of them. I have their half brother, and they don't even know about him. Sad what kind of hurt we inflict on one another out of spite. But I can tell you that the hurt will ease with time.

Step out of the arena and move on with your life. As they say, living well is the best revenge.

Go forth and live well.

Stormieweather · 01-16-2012, 09:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Stormieweather

The only power she has over you is the power you grant her.

As long as you continue to dance the dance, you will stay stuck and in pain. Do what's best for YOU. Do you honestly think reacting to her bs, looking for ways to obtain vengeance, or obsessing over the child is best for YOU?

I've lost a child I loved that wasn't mine. Two of them. I have their half brother, and they don't even know about him. Sad what kind of hurt we inflict on one another out of spite. But I can tell you that the hurt will ease with time.

Step out of the arena and move on with your life. As they say, living well is the best revenge.

Go forth and live well.

Weird. After posting this and while thinking of this former relationship, I did a fast google search on this ex. He is my son's father, although they've only seen each other 3x (ex's choice). So what pops up? His obituary! He died 3 weeks ago and his obit was posted yesterday. How very strange the coincidence!! He was only 66 yrs old

01-16-2012, 12:50 AM	#1
classicman barely disguised asshole, keeper of all that is holy. Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 23,401	Dunno dude ... you gotta disengage from her and start anew. Have your lil sis BLOCK your ex's number. Put one foot in front of the other and keep movin' __________________ "like strapping a pillow on a bull in a china shop" Bullitt

01-16-2012, 10:43 AM	#3
Stormieweather Wearing her bitch boots Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Floriduh Posts: 1,181	The only power she has over you is the power you grant her. As long as you continue to dance the dance, you will stay stuck and in pain. Do what's best for YOU. Do you honestly think reacting to her bs, looking for ways to obtain vengeance, or obsessing over the child is best for YOU? I've lost a child I loved that wasn't mine. Two of them. I have their half brother, and they don't even know about him. Sad what kind of hurt we inflict on one another out of spite. But I can tell you that the hurt will ease with time. Step out of the arena and move on with your life. As they say, living well is the best revenge. Go forth and live well. __________________ "First they ignore you, then they ridicule you, then they fight you, then you win." - Mahatma Gandhi

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