Divorce: perparing for the war

[Clodfobble]

Originally Posted by traceur

if i sue and she counter sues, she'll be subpeona here and it will go under Israeli law.

Look, here's what it boils down to. You are bitter and angry, and you want to sue her for some amount of stuff and/or money, and to get her kid taken away from her and sent to his biological father, possibly for his benefit but also to hurt her.

You are implicitly asking us permission to do this, on the pretense that she was going to do it to you first. But you're not getting it, from me at least. You got screwed, yes. But you need to walk away. Revenge will not get you what you want.

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Originally Posted by Clodfobble

Look, here's what it boils down to. You are bitter and angry, and you want to sue her for some amount of stuff and/or money, and to get her kid taken away from her and sent to his biological father, possibly for his benefit but also to hurt her.

You are implicitly asking us permission to do this, on the pretense that she was going to do it to you first. But you're not getting it, from me at least. You got screwed, yes. But you need to walk away. Revenge will not get you what you want.

not really: i am asking her for "permission" to do it. a.k.a. informing her that if she is going to take legal action, only then i would follow through with doing the same. based on what she said, she gave it to me.

since then i further informed her of the financial consequances and that i will proceed unless she changes her mind unless she does it after the point i sign a contract or pay the lawyer, because frankly my family helped me pay for one lawyer too many based on her false promises (The immigration lawyer).

basically: she tells me she lets it go & i'll let it go, and that means i want to hear no legal threats from her, ever, or for that matter any attempt to gain any power over my life at any point in time.

from you i am simply asking for advice about how should i do it.

as far as costudy goes, from the emails i got from the lawyers so far, that is the one and only case i considered which isn't likely to succeed. one lawyer said otherwise but her entire response line indicated she didn't read a thing i told her beyond the word "divorce"... so no, this isn't on my table.