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View Poll Results: waht do you do when confronted by a beggar?
Ignore them. Never give to them. fuck em. get a job 7 14.58%
I give pocket change if I'm feeling weak, and regret it. 3 6.25%
It depends on the beggar, mainly 17 35.42%
I follow my whims 16 33.33%
I try to give enough to make them smile 3 6.25%
I give non cash items like food, clothing or beer 8 16.67%
I dig deep 0 0%
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Old 11-12-2008, 08:39 PM   #11
lumberjim
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The thing you have to keep in mind is this:

When you give something to someone who has less than you, and is in need, you do it for yourself, not for them. You do it because it makes you feel good to help them up. If you concern yourself with what they are going to do with it, and treat your gift as though it were still yours....then you haven't gotten value for your gift. regardless of what they do with it, it will never satisfy your expectation, so .....

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Originally Posted by jinx View Post
I don't care what they do with it, once I give it to them it's theirs. I'm not judging them or trying to change their lives and I think putting conditions on a gift is fucked up.
what SHE said.
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