It is so hard to swallow

[yesman065]

Originally Posted by freshnesschronic

She thought I overreacted, which I did. She says he was just kidding and didn't mean it. But still, I am not comfortable with him saying that, joke or not.

I get the "not uncomfortable part" but your reaction as you readily admitted was uncalled for and IMO immature at best. Thats ok you are immature - you should be! You're 19. The fact that you have a problem with him and not her is sort of strange though. SHE is the one with a commitment to you - not him and "60+ im/pm, emails, messages whatever" is rather interesting/telling to me. Did you know that they were friends? That they were talking....?

I gotta admit though - Ibby does have a point in that your reaction makes sense if you are a very possessive person. Just food for thought - then again what the hell do I know?