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Originally Posted by jujuwwhite

I am very much aware of that and that is part of my point. Why is it so hard here to adopt? I see kids returned everyday by dfacs to abusive, neglectful parents while childless couples desperately wanting kids (babies or not) get turned down for stupid reasons such as too old, too poor, house not big enough, car not big enough. Basically stupid excuses.

Maybe you should look into the reasons for the guidelines before dismissing them as "stupid."
Children being returned to bad biological relatives is unrelated to adults being unable to adopt.