Toddler boy

Tulip · 06-09-2010, 05:36 PM

I have a 5 yr. old nephew whom I babysit. Lately, he's been playing with his little wee wee often. And sometimes he would be touching his testicles. Is this normal? I don't know if it's itching or irritating him and he doesn't really answer when we ask him. He's not circumcised so I'm worried that it could be urinary tract infection. What do you think? I tried to do a search but got no idea how about in doing it. I typed in "why do toddler boys touch their wee wee" and didn't get any answers from that search question.

monster · 06-09-2010, 06:02 PM

of course it's normal. They just get worse as they get older

Unless he seems pained or irritated, just ignore it, or send him to the bathroom to do it, explaining that it's not OK to do it in front of other people/something you should only do in private. Or you could try telling him not to do it at all. Good luck with that.

5year-olds would not be considered toddlers, btw.

Clodfobble · 06-09-2010, 08:58 PM

Yeah, the best you can do is explain to him that touching himself is not something you do in front of other people. None of them ever actually stop doing it.

lumberjim · 06-09-2010, 09:08 PM

I'm touching mine right now!

monster · 06-09-2010, 09:19 PM

Don't you always when clodfobble posts?

Clodfobble · 06-09-2010, 09:20 PM

I know I do.

monster · 06-09-2010, 09:52 PM

we all know you do....

Clodfobble · 06-09-2010, 11:23 PM

Back to the topic of Tulip's nephew, I have been corrected by Mr. Clodfobble: apparently, most little boys touch themselves at this age out of mere curiosity, and then they soon get over it and stop, and don't pick up the practice again until puberty when the benefits are far more significant. So you might not even have to tell him to stop if you're feeling uncomfortable about it. But I would, myself. It's never too early to start (gently) explaining socially unacceptable behaviors.

lookout123 · 06-09-2010, 11:32 PM

Just tell him it isn't a handle so he should keep his little perverted hands off it.

You too, LJ.

monster · 06-10-2010, 06:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Clodfobble

Back to the topic of Tulip's nephew, I have been corrected by Mr. Clodfobble: apparently, most little boys touch themselves at this age out of mere curiosity, and then they soon get over it and stop, and don't pick up the practice again until puberty when the benefits are far more significant. So you might not even have to tell him to stop if you're feeling uncomfortable about it. But I would, myself. It's never too early to start (gently) explaining socially unacceptable behaviors.

I dunno, ours showed no signs of stopping until we told them they shouldn't do it in public

Sundae · 06-10-2010, 08:16 AM

My bro touched his until school (5 at that time).
Despite being told no, not to, not in public, naughty and all that, it was a comfort thing he wasn't willing to change. He stopped immediately when told to, but his hand crept back down his trousers afterwards.

I doubt he stopped the day he started school. I just remember that it was not an issue on our next summer holiday.

I'd draw attention to it as something wrong to do, like picking your nose and eating it. Peer pressure (esp from little girls) will do the rest sooner or later.

Oh and FTR - the vast majority of boys in this country are uncircumcised. I doubt that is a factor.

Trilby · 06-10-2010, 08:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Sundae Girl

- the vast majority of boys in this country are uncircumcised.

How does one know this?

and btw, HI SUNDAE!

Sundae · 06-10-2010, 08:36 AM

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Originally Posted by Brianna

How does one know this?

I've experienced the majority of men in this country

But seriously, it's a proper statistic (don't make me find it!) backed up by personal experience (only 2 circumcised English men, one of whom was my first BF and not a sexual partner)

Quote:

and btw, HI SUNDAE!

Hey chick!
I still have that book to send you. I blew it off this month in favour of a ticket to see JB speak at the National Theatre. Ticket only £3.50 but train fare is horrid. Think of me on the 24th, enjoying myself by denying you :p

monster · 06-10-2010, 09:50 AM

She's right, you know. We barbarians prefer them as nature intended

Trilby · 06-10-2010, 10:12 AM

Who is JB? (I'm hopeless, aren't I?)

Ok, if you AND monnie say the English lads are as the Goddess made them, I'll have to accept it.

06-09-2010, 05:36 PM	#1
Tulip Professor Join Date: May 2008 Location: Houston, TX Posts: 1,293	Toddler boy I have a 5 yr. old nephew whom I babysit. Lately, he's been playing with his little wee wee often. And sometimes he would be touching his testicles. Is this normal? I don't know if it's itching or irritating him and he doesn't really answer when we ask him. He's not circumcised so I'm worried that it could be urinary tract infection. What do you think? I tried to do a search but got no idea how about in doing it. I typed in "why do toddler boys touch their wee wee" and didn't get any answers from that search question.

06-09-2010, 06:02 PM	#2
monster I hear them call the tide Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Perpetual Chaos Posts: 30,852	of course it's normal. They just get worse as they get older Unless he seems pained or irritated, just ignore it, or send him to the bathroom to do it, explaining that it's not OK to do it in front of other people/something you should only do in private. Or you could try telling him not to do it at all. Good luck with that. 5year-olds would not be considered toddlers, btw. __________________ The most difficult thing is the decision to act, the rest is merely tenacity Amelia Earhart

06-09-2010, 08:58 PM	#3
Clodfobble UNDER CONDITIONAL MITIGATION Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Austin, TX Posts: 20,012	Yeah, the best you can do is explain to him that touching himself is not something you do in front of other people. None of them ever actually stop doing it. __________________ My book My other book My spirit animal

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06-09-2010, 11:23 PM	#8
Clodfobble UNDER CONDITIONAL MITIGATION Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Austin, TX Posts: 20,012	Back to the topic of Tulip's nephew, I have been corrected by Mr. Clodfobble: apparently, most little boys touch themselves at this age out of mere curiosity, and then they soon get over it and stop, and don't pick up the practice again until puberty when the benefits are far more significant. So you might not even have to tell him to stop if you're feeling uncomfortable about it. But I would, myself. It's never too early to start (gently) explaining socially unacceptable behaviors. __________________ My book My other book My spirit animal

06-09-2010, 11:32 PM	#9
lookout123 changed his status to single Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Right behind you. No, the other side. Posts: 10,308	Just tell him it isn't a handle so he should keep his little perverted hands off it. You too, LJ. __________________ Getting knocked down is no sin, it's not getting back up that's the sin

06-10-2010, 08:16 AM	#11
Sundae polaroid of perfection Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: West Yorkshire Posts: 24,185	My bro touched his until school (5 at that time). Despite being told no, not to, not in public, naughty and all that, it was a comfort thing he wasn't willing to change. He stopped immediately when told to, but his hand crept back down his trousers afterwards. I doubt he stopped the day he started school. I just remember that it was not an issue on our next summer holiday. I'd draw attention to it as something wrong to do, like picking your nose and eating it. Peer pressure (esp from little girls) will do the rest sooner or later. Oh and FTR - the vast majority of boys in this country are uncircumcised. I doubt that is a factor.

06-10-2010, 09:50 AM	#14
monster I hear them call the tide Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Perpetual Chaos Posts: 30,852	She's right, you know. We barbarians prefer them as nature intended __________________ The most difficult thing is the decision to act, the rest is merely tenacity Amelia Earhart

06-10-2010, 10:12 AM	#15
Trilby Slattern of the Swail Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 15,654	Who is JB? (I'm hopeless, aren't I?) Ok, if you AND monnie say the English lads are as the Goddess made them, I'll have to accept it. __________________ In Barrie's play and novel, the roles of fairies are brief: they are allies to the Lost Boys, the source of fairy dust and ...They are portrayed as dangerous, whimsical and extremely clever but quite hedonistic. "Shall I give you a kiss?" Peter asked and, jerking an acorn button off his coat, solemnly presented it to her. —James Barrie Wimminfolk they be tricksy. - ZenGum

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