Lighting the bulb of brilliance

[Dagney]

Originally posted by lumberjim
What I was saying was that in SOME cases, the woman ( or the man if it happens to be reversed) can purposefully instigate the abuser into losing control, because they enjoy some control for a short time afterward. This because of the guilt that the abuser feels toward what they have done.

Is that what you're doing here? Stirring the shit so folks get cheesed at ya? Because I'm willing to bet that more than a few of the women would be more than happy to slap some sense into you.