Don't rape them but ...

[glatt]

It was attitudes like this that made me look for a college without a Greek system when I was applying years ago. If a school has a Greek system, then you need to rely on it for social events. And if you aren't in the system then you're an outsider. But if you go to a school with none of that, then the student body makes sure there is social stuff going on. You'll still have idiots in the population, but they won't have a megaphone for spreading their messed up ideas.