Tolerance

[DanaC]

So, basically, this is all hitting one of your buttons. This is an issue that drives home for you.

JB hit Ib's buttons. This stuff matters. This stuff hurts. Our treatment of JB hurts you and it wasn't even directed at you. JB hurt Ibs directly.

But somehow Ib's is supposed to just shrug that shit off and be superunderstanding of JB's mental health issues. She's got to float above it all and not give in to that human desire to hit back and take a swipe at someone who hurt her.

You do not hold back when you are hurt. You do not rise above it when people swipe at you. You do not turn the other cheek. Why do you expect it of Ibs?

Is it because the thing that hurts Ibs doesn't resonate for you the same way that JB's mental health does? is it really that simple? Please tell me it isnt.

You dismiss Ib's concerns and Ib's hurt withe every post in this thread. You have stood in judgement over what someone else should find hurtful to them, and then drawn a line accordingly.


[eta]Just to be clear, Infi, I am really not trying to have a go at you. I am slightly bemused by some of your responses.