Well, This is Going to be a Lousy Situation

[classicman]

Beyond words here... I cannot see the other side's reasoning.
She said "I felt that you just wouldn't let me go."
Well Donna has an awfully high opinion of herself.

Then there is this -

I have followed a plan that was developed by myself and my attorney for the past several months.
All accounts with (our bank) have been shut down.
Mortgage has not been paid since Sept.
Utilities have not been paid since Sept.

What atty would justify basically stealing your 1/2 of the money and
leaving the bills unpaid?
This makes no sense at all.
This is beyond cold hearted. It is nothing short of evil. There is more to this than she has let on. The proverbial "other shoe" has not yet dropped. Get professional advice ASAP.

Oh and the consolation that the boyfriend had nothing to do with it?
Yeah right. Spare me.

I am so sorry for you and hate that you are going through this. Please know my thoughts are with you.