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Old 04-28-2011, 12:55 AM   #1
Undertoad
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Pam, all I can say is that your BPD is making it difficult for people to interact with you.

I don't say that to be hurtful. I know that the therapy will help, it just takes time and patience. You are a young woman and it is wonderful that you are in therapy now. It will help you very much.

If you are banned as you have requested, I think it will also be helpful to you. The forum seems to get you very upset. I don't know whether it's good for you.

Every day you go from the highest of highs, to the lowest of lows. You deeply love people and then deeply hate them. This is due to your BPD, but to everyone else, it only seems over-dramatic.

It is not only my decision, but if you were banned, I would like it only to be for six months. After six months, you could come back on and give us an update on your life. What progress have you made?

We shall see.
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Old 04-29-2011, 11:01 AM   #2
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Pam, all I can say is that your BPD is making it difficult for people to interact with you.

I don't say that to be hurtful. I know that the therapy will help, it just takes time and patience. You are a young woman and it is wonderful that you are in therapy now. It will help you very much.

If you are banned as you have requested, I think it will also be helpful to you. The forum seems to get you very upset. I don't know whether it's good for you.

Every day you go from the highest of highs, to the lowest of lows. You deeply love people and then deeply hate them. This is due to your BPD, but to everyone else, it only seems over-dramatic.

It is not only my decision, but if you were banned, I would like it only to be for six months. After six months, you could come back on and give us an update on your life. What progress have you made?

We shall see.
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Old 04-30-2011, 01:25 PM   #3
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This is good UT. You're a good man.
Indeed. Better than me. All I could think was, "you're getting married? Congratulations!"


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