The Cellar 'Home base' academy awards...

[pensive pam]

Originally Posted by wolf

You can't force people to welcome you or to agree with you.

The world is not divided into people who love you and people who despise you.

You are choosing to respond in negative ways.

You are choosing to present yourself in ways that might lead to negative interactions with others.

Take a couple of deep breaths.

And a couple more.

There are only three things you can get banished for here.

Trying to break the board.
Trying to use the board for something illegal.
And being insufferably annoying.

Okay, four if you count being banished for being a spammer.

But what I really trying to point out here is that the bar on "insufferably annoying" is set really high.

I am just asking for acceptance. When I post a thread, I want the thread to be ABOUT the thread, not about me. Yet, I am called a 'troller' or whatever that term is. I am only me. And now I need wine to calm down. Very upset! ....not sure waht to do or post again............ and sometimes I fake not being able to hear well because I just want to fit in. I ride the subways with an IPOD, yet I really can't hear it. If you really care, ... if you really want to know...read my posts... THEY are from my heart... there is not spam. If i am annnoying then it's best i l;eave. no?

[monster]

Originally Posted by pensive pam

I am just asking for acceptance.

yes you are.

When I post a thread, I want the thread to be ABOUT the thread, not about me.

but the thread is about you.

Yet, I am called a 'troller' or whatever that term is. I am only me. And now I need wine to calm down. Very upset! ....not sure waht to do or post again............ and sometimes I fake not being able to hear well because I just want to fit in. I ride the subways with an IPOD, yet I really can't hear it. If you really care, ... if you really want to know...read my posts... THEY are from my heart... there is not spam. If i am annnoying then it's best i l;eave. no?

yup

[pensive pam]

Originally Posted by monster

yes you are.



but the thread is about you.



yup

You sir, are mean...

[monster]

Originally Posted by pensive pam

You sir, are mean...

also female.

...and thanks ...I practice daily

[kerosene]

The best way to get acceptance is not to post threads about your problems right off the bat, but to step back and read some of the other forums and what the other members are posting. Be a part of the community. Don't suck the community into your world and expect everyone to understand. You don't even know what gender half of us are. It's pretty obvious in most of the other threads, but you continue to get pissed at people for not understanding your situation. Step away and do some reading, first.

I need another beer.

[wolf]

Originally Posted by pensive pam

When I post a thread, I want the thread to be ABOUT the thread, not about me.

It's called thread drift, sometimes thread piracy, and it's just what happens.

It isn't about you, particularly, it's just what happens, here and on every other darn forum on the internet.

[pensive pam]

Originally Posted by wolf

It's called thread drift, sometimes thread piracy, and it's just what happens.

It isn't about you, particularly, it's just what happens, here and on every other darn forum on the internet.

I know it happens. It happened on the other site I was on; which is why I came here. If I was this popular/unpopular in high school, maybe I would not be so screwed up, perhaps??

Many of hte people here have not been to NY. and now if they come here, I will not help them!

Angry Pam!

[pensive pam]

Originally Posted by pensive pam

I know it happens. It happened on the other site I was on; which is why I came here. If I was this popular/unpopular in high school, maybe I would not be so screwed up, perhaps??

Many of hte people here have not been to NY. and now if they come here, I will not help them!

Angry Pam!

And now I have the word 'slacker' under my name. I know what that word means. And I am not a 'slacker.'

Even madder than the last post,
Pam

[monster]

Originally Posted by pensive pam

And now I have the word 'slacker' under my name. I know what that word means. And I am not a 'slacker.'

Even madder than the last post,
Pam

but you have no job. so you are a slacker (like wolf )..... You are the madderist ever. Shall we alert the guinnes book of records?

[morethanpretty]

Originally Posted by pensive pam

Many of hte people here have not been to NY. and now if they come here, I will not help them!

Angry Pam!

And I wouldn't spit on you if you were dyin of thirst!

Shit stirrer MTP.