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Thats "Miss Zipper Neck" to you.
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@Lookout- It is NOT running away or teaching them to run away. It is teaching them to remove themselves from a bad situation before they accidentally make it worse. So you would rather your child be put in a situation where he could accidentally cripple or KILL another child just so they won't have to swallow their pride and walk away from a fight? One punch can kill, there is not appropriate amount of violence. Plus no one said anything about selling your house and moving states. What, you only have one school in your whole state?
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And there is the philosophical difference that will prevent us from ever agreeing on this topic. You see it as a horrible evil that can and must be avoided at all cost. I know that it is sometimes unfortunately necessary because not everyone is directing gumdrops and goodwishes in your direction. I do not enjoy violence but I will not live in fear of it.
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Thats "Miss Zipper Neck" to you.
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Makes some feel uncomfortable
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You're obviously not christian. Quote:
Is that right, Moretp?
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Use a sharper stick, maybe I'll respond.
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Makes some feel uncomfortable
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What would all you "go victim" people think if the little one had gotten up and he and his crew had beaten the big kid until he was unconscious? Still and epic win, because he stood up to his attackers?
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Have you answered Pete Zicato's question yet?
Let me know when you do and I'll take that as a signal you actually want a discussion.
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This philosophy is used in almost all martial arts. You NEVER start a fight and try to avoid them if you can but if you are ever placed in a situation where you need to fight, train so you can defend yourself. This philosophy will usually not create bullies but quite the opposite.
Bullies are not created from learning how to fight. Bullies are created when learning and embracing that using force on someone you perceive as weaker than yourself will benefit you somehow.
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It's just not that simple. Resorting to violence is a last resort, and most parents would encourage their children to try all other avenues, but sometimes they just don't work. Sure systems could/might be implimented maybe in the future, but what if it's happening now? It's just like all the other social issues. There's no quick fix, so we have to 'make do' with the best solution until something better comes along. eta: My recent posts are not so much about this particular thread, but trying to explain what some of you feel is the 'cheering on' of the victim. Trying to help you understand why some of us feel less than sympathetic to the bully and why we recognise that the victim felt he had no other choice. That's real life. That's the way it is, and wishing it were something different is pointless.
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