What would you do? What would you think?

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Originally Posted by Sheldonrs

I think the only reason I would get in touch with him would be to see the look on his face when i told him his only son (and most hated child) is gay. :-)

What about the look on your face when he tells you that actually, he's had more sons, and he has showered them with devotion and supported them in every way? Sometimes people have the ability to hurt us long after we thought we were beyond them.

To be honest, I don't think I could contain my curiosity, if it were me. I'd contact him via email/snail mail, something that he can mull over and won't put him on the spot, and make it very clear that you're not looking for money, or emotional investment from him, or pretty much anything at all, you just wanted to let him know you're out there. But I'd keep in mind that continuing to be ignored after that point isn't the worst that could happen.