I'm about to become a morsel in the banquet of love!

Sundae · 01-12-2011, 03:35 PM

I thought I saw the Evil Ex at London Victoria on my way home this Monday.
And I was all ready to go up and say hello!
I can only blame the 12 hour journey.

Luckily it turned out to be someone who looked nothing like him when I saw his full face. I shudder that I even considered it. He would certainly not have tried to seduce me, but the fact I would have been friendly to a man who never treated me as if I was worth the effort of friendship is a sad indication of how far I have not come.

Stay away Sam.
Pretend it didn't happen.
Attraction isn't really worth shit - we are betrayed by our own hormones.
It's only worth anything when the attraction is coupled by love and/ or friendship.

kerosene · 01-12-2011, 05:44 PM

Having never really done the go back several years later thing, I can't say I have any experience. I can see why it would be tempting. Memories have a way of seeming so benign the further back they are. There was a reason you were with him in the first place, after all. I guess I don't really have enough information about why he left, or who he is or anything like that. I would say that what everyone else is saying is the sensible thing to do and probably the smartest as well. I would give it some time and if you have some small doubts, treat them as bigger ones.

DanaC · 01-12-2011, 05:51 PM

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Originally Posted by kerosene

... if you have some small doubts, treat them as bigger ones.

Good advice that.

01-12-2011, 03:35 PM	#1
Sundae polaroid of perfection Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: West Yorkshire Posts: 24,185	I thought I saw the Evil Ex at London Victoria on my way home this Monday. And I was all ready to go up and say hello! I can only blame the 12 hour journey. Luckily it turned out to be someone who looked nothing like him when I saw his full face. I shudder that I even considered it. He would certainly not have tried to seduce me, but the fact I would have been friendly to a man who never treated me as if I was worth the effort of friendship is a sad indication of how far I have not come. Stay away Sam. Pretend it didn't happen. Attraction isn't really worth shit - we are betrayed by our own hormones. It's only worth anything when the attraction is coupled by love and/ or friendship. __________________ Life's hard you know, so strike a pose on a Cadillac

01-12-2011, 05:44 PM	#2
kerosene Touring the facilities Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: The plains of Colorado Posts: 3,476	Having never really done the go back several years later thing, I can't say I have any experience. I can see why it would be tempting. Memories have a way of seeming so benign the further back they are. There was a reason you were with him in the first place, after all. I guess I don't really have enough information about why he left, or who he is or anything like that. I would say that what everyone else is saying is the sensible thing to do and probably the smartest as well. I would give it some time and if you have some small doubts, treat them as bigger ones.

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