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Old 07-27-2010, 09:39 PM   #1
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You just described my mom, Fob. 'cept she took an (alleged) old family name from generations back. Then hyphenated it with her next husband.... No idea what she's using now.....

In UK, it's not the norm to go back to the maiden name after divorce so much. Costs money for a start....
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Old 07-29-2010, 08:29 AM   #2
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In UK, it's not the norm to go back to the maiden name after divorce so much. Costs money for a start....
I dunno, I was considered very odd by almost everyone for not reverting to my maiden name...

I also had a friend who chose to change her name by deed poll after her divorce. She was Indian, but had no contact with her birth family, instead she was brought up in England by an elderly and fairly distant relative. So she felt no connection to her maiden name. He husband cheated on her and left her within a year of marriage, so she certainly didn't want to keep her married name.

So she chose something quite unusual and distrinctive which still fit her heritage. I won't type it here in case she still has the same name! I quite admired her for that.
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Old 07-30-2010, 12:39 PM   #3
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I dunno, I was considered very odd by almost everyone...
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