Step-life

kerosene · 07-09-2010, 11:28 AM

Thank you monster, and you are right. Dad has these discussions with her, and it has been good. This summer seems to be a little better, since she is older, now and able to see what is happening. I think it is a good thing she has someone not part of that group to get a basis in reality at least once a year. The bangs are just one example. Bio-mom does a lot to try to leverage control over her, including trying to convince her that these "meeting" people are the *only* right way and that she should not be coming here in the summers. I am proud of how strong she has become. She sees through this stuff, and still wants to come here.

classicman · 07-09-2010, 11:34 AM

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Originally Posted by kerosene

(xxx-)mom does a lot to try to leverage control over her, including trying to convince her that these "meeting" people are the *only* right way and that she should not be coming here in the summers. I am proud of how strong she has become. She sees through this stuff, and still wants to come here.

I feel as if I typed that myself... Good for her and good for you.

07-09-2010, 11:28 AM	#1
kerosene Touring the facilities Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: The plains of Colorado Posts: 3,476	Thank you monster, and you are right. Dad has these discussions with her, and it has been good. This summer seems to be a little better, since she is older, now and able to see what is happening. I think it is a good thing she has someone not part of that group to get a basis in reality at least once a year. The bangs are just one example. Bio-mom does a lot to try to leverage control over her, including trying to convince her that these "meeting" people are the only right way and that she should not be coming here in the summers. I am proud of how strong she has become. She sees through this stuff, and still wants to come here.

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