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Shawnee123 · 12-29-2009, 03:54 PM

I don't believe in abuse, whether it's hitting, or name-calling (hey, I'm not in a relationship with classicman)

or whatever. Women don't get to beat the crap out of a guy and he just stands there taking it. Women don't get to belittle a guy and call him all sorts of horrible things, make him feel ashamed, hurt him.

It hurts men as much as it hurts women. A long time hurt...does horrible things to a psyche.

And, I think it's harder for a man, even, to justify leaving...due to the shame society puts on him, making him feel not a man (or so he fears.) Here's an article I ran across, which I was reminded of when reading these posts:

http://marital-conflict-negotiation...._relationships

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12-29-2009, 03:54 PM	#31
Shawnee123 Why, you're a regular Alfred E Einstein, ain't ya? Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 21,206	I don't believe in abuse, whether it's hitting, or name-calling (hey, I'm not in a relationship with classicman) or whatever. Women don't get to beat the crap out of a guy and he just stands there taking it. Women don't get to belittle a guy and call him all sorts of horrible things, make him feel ashamed, hurt him. It hurts men as much as it hurts women. A long time hurt...does horrible things to a psyche. And, I think it's harder for a man, even, to justify leaving...due to the shame society puts on him, making him feel not a man (or so he fears.) Here's an article I ran across, which I was reminded of when reading these posts: http://marital-conflict-negotiation...._relationships __________________ A word to the wise ain't necessary - it's the stupid ones who need the advice. --Bill Cosby

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