My sis...

monster · 10-04-2009, 05:49 PM

Possibly it takes longer to learn that you weren't meant to be together than to know that you were? beest and I knew pretty much straight away we met -way back 20 years ago. We did take a few years to get married, but not for any reason other than lack of urgency/effort.

I'd hesitate to interfere. People have to make their own mistakes. Maybe better to stay friends and be there for her if/when she needs you than to annoy her, maybe even helping to her into a bad decision just to "show you" and then watch on as a helpless unwanted voice if/when she needs someone.

10-04-2009, 05:49 PM	#1
monster I hear them call the tide Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Perpetual Chaos Posts: 30,852	Possibly it takes longer to learn that you weren't meant to be together than to know that you were? beest and I knew pretty much straight away we met -way back 20 years ago. We did take a few years to get married, but not for any reason other than lack of urgency/effort. I'd hesitate to interfere. People have to make their own mistakes. Maybe better to stay friends and be there for her if/when she needs you than to annoy her, maybe even helping to her into a bad decision just to "show you" and then watch on as a helpless unwanted voice if/when she needs someone. __________________ The most difficult thing is the decision to act, the rest is merely tenacity Amelia Earhart

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