My sis...

[morethanpretty]

Oh yeah, and he's pre-med. Waiting for acceptance into a medical school, so if that works out they would have years of him working towards being a doctor, and then years of internship, years of paying all those bills...

[Griff]

Originally Posted by morethanpretty

Oh yeah, and he's pre-med. Waiting for acceptance into a medical school, so if that works out they would have years of him working towards being a doctor, and then years of internship, years of paying all those bills...

Often it is years of her paying the bills, that is a big commitment after dating him for only three months. She has a lot to consider like how sure is she that she won't be his first wife. Be careful of sister push-back but she does need a wake-up call.

[TheMercenary]

Originally Posted by morethanpretty

Oh yeah, and he's pre-med. Waiting for acceptance into a medical school, so if that works out they would have years of him working towards being a doctor, and then years of internship, years of paying all those bills...

Additionally to what Griff said, years of separation. He is not going to be around during much of that time. I think you are right on target. If I were you I would try to support her but put a dose of reality into her decision and ask if it might be smarter to wait a year or so. And what if he doesn't get into med school? then what? What is the plan?