What would you say to Aliantha?

[monster]

Originally Posted by Aliantha

I mean seriously, do you all think it's funny that he keeps telling you to eat dicks and shut the fuck up? That's not funny unless you're about 12 surely.

Well yebbut, most of us are a little nerdy so our humor tend towards the....... juvenile?

I have to confess to being amused by jim's response too. and I didn't think it was a personal attack. I don't think he's have posted the same for any dwellar, but I think any gabby female would have got that -you, me, bri, shawnee, sundae, dana, juni, clod to name but a few.

seriously Ali, just ignore him if you can't let it wash over. Also, you seem a little tense at the moment, don't let this virtual world of bullshit add to that. You know it's not that real -you can take a break and it won't go away and you'll be welcomed back (not saying you should -just pointing out how it's not necessary to care so deeply if it's distressing you) Are you maybe suffering from a little post-partum blues? I sort of got that impression from a few other posts and maybe totally jumping to conclusions, but if so, I can totally see how this isn't helping. But I can also see Jim laying off if you say "hey look, I'm a little fragile right now" Maybe>

[Aliantha]

Originally Posted by monster

Well yebbut, most of us are a little nerdy so our humor tend towards the....... juvenile?

I have to confess to being amused by jim's response too. and I didn't think it was a personal attack. I don't think he's have posted the same for any dwellar, but I think any gabby female would have got that -you, me, bri, shawnee, sundae, dana, juni, clod to name but a few.

seriously Ali, just ignore him if you can't let it wash over. Also, you seem a little tense at the moment, don't let this virtual world of bullshit add to that. You know it's not that real -you can take a break and it won't go away and you'll be welcomed back (not saying you should -just pointing out how it's not necessary to care so deeply if it's distressing you) Are you maybe suffering from a little post-partum blues? I sort of got that impression from a few other posts and maybe totally jumping to conclusions, but if so, I can totally see how this isn't helping. But I can also see Jim laying off if you say "hey look, I'm a little fragile right now" Maybe>

I like posting here, and I find it fun except for the way he addresses me in every instance. Every single instance. Check it out if you don't think that's true monster. I'm just tired of it. I've put up with it for years now. Yesterday was just the last straw. I've had enough. I can't take any more, and yes as you say, I am extremely tired. Exhausted would be more to the point. Physically as well as emotionally. I have nothing left over for tools on the internet who decide to be arseholes just because they think it's funny. So yes you're right, I should just ignore him as I have most of the time over the last year or so. He's definitely not worth getting upset over. I've made it quite clear I don't think he's funny when he talks to me like that and yet he continues. He only had to ask me once to stop calling him Jimbo and I complied. I guess things don't work both ways for him, but I don't find that surprising.