Ex's are vex's

[Aliantha]

Do men not feel the same way women do when a relationship ends? No men have commented in this thread...is there a reason for that?

[glatt]

This is a thread about people you've dated who now have sucky lives and you feel bad for them. Nobody I dated went on to have a sucky life, as far as I know. But I didn't keep in touch, so who knows?

[Elspode]

Originally Posted by Aliantha

Do men not feel the same way women do when a relationship ends? No men have commented in this thread...is there a reason for that?

I don't think much about my ex at all anymore unless there's something going on with our disabled adult son. We've been apart for sixteen years at this point, so most of the stuff is gone, but I did have a nice evening sitting out on the porch with her summer before last, drinking beer and and talking old times.

I don't really feel bad when she has problems, because I'm usually not aware of them, and because she's such a pain in the ass that I figure she usually brought it on herself