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Old 04-11-2008, 01:15 AM   #1
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Don't worry about those two, they are immature fiends who live for forum ridiculing. Quite annoying, to people who enjoy quality posts. Flint's sanity has been questioned here recently too.

Just focus on the things that made you decide to break up. That will be the best way to help you move on. Don't think about getting back together, it will only weaken you emotionally and lead you in a vicious cycle with her. I wouldn't do this "best friend" gig, you need time to be away from her, limited contact. Time for yourself, do the things you want to do, be the person you want to be, not what she wanted you to be. Single life is an amazing world that you have to discover for yourself. Moving on is the healthiest thing you can do for yourself. You guys can become real friends again only if you are truly over her. You owe it to yourself.
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Old 04-13-2008, 10:23 AM   #2
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Don't worry about those two, they are immature fiends who live for forum ridiculing. Quite annoying, to people who enjoy quality posts.
oh hey....the judgmental humorless bleeding heart know it all but-in-sky society called.... apparently you've got their attitude, and they want it back.
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Old 04-13-2008, 12:08 PM   #3
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Pssst. It's but-in-ski.
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Old 05-01-2008, 03:15 PM   #4
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so yeah

I'm doing good with getting over my X, things are on the up and up. Not completely over but I'm doing very well, moving on great, but there's this weird thing...
I keep checking her out every time I see her which is so weird because I don't consciously remember checking her out when we were together. Is this normal?

How come my first thought of seeing her in summer clothes is "dayuuuuum" !!!
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Old 05-01-2008, 03:44 PM   #5
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I keep checking her out every time I see her which is so weird because I don't consciously remember checking her out when we were together. Is this normal?

How come my first thought of seeing her in summer clothes is "dayuuuuum" !!!
already hitting that = bored with it

cannot have = inflamed desire
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Old 05-05-2008, 04:47 PM   #6
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so yeah

I'm doing good with getting over my X, things are on the up and up. Not completely over but I'm doing very well, moving on great, but there's this weird thing...
I keep checking her out every time I see her which is so weird because I don't consciously remember checking her out when we were together. Is this normal?

How come my first thought of seeing her in summer clothes is "dayuuuuum" !!!
That is normal.
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