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Originally Posted by ZenGum
Yes, she has cancer.
How do you feel now?
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Other than recovering from a recent canal root job at the dentist, I feel fine. Thank you for asking
As for our friend and her medical condition - if she is touchy about her self (and I wouldn't fault her if she is) then she ought to hang a sign around her neck telling everyone,
"I have cancer! Any reply to me must be made upon egg shells!"
Sorry, Mr. Zen but I can't oblige you. The fact that she has cancer is completely irrelevant to the coments I made about her "sig". You have no idea of the life I've endured either because i don't think it is really anyone's business or anyone's responsibilty
but mine. That's the way that I deal with my difficulties but it certainly must not be everyone's way to deal with life. I respect everyone on that point. In any case, if you (or anyone else) happen to say something that strikes a nerve then I'll have to make my own decision whether to ignore it or stay away from the fourm. Calling someone out on the carpet for something he/she could not have possibly known is not my style and I would have hoped that it is not the practice of anyone else either. It's interesting that it is
YOU who thinks it's so important to point out her personal problems - not she. She might have informed me on the personal messages, if she thought it would be a good idea, but I'm guessing that she's more in tune with reality than you and is better prepared to get on with life.
How do you feel now?