Marriage question for guys

10-05-2007, 12:48 PM

I can tell you, in our current situation, if I spent $50 on a bunch of flowers she would be pissed... just pissed... only pissed and would be correct to be.
If my feelings were hurt by it I would be an idiot for it.
Romance is free, spending money we don't have to spend would be foolish and would have nothing to do with how much she cares about me or how romantic she is or feels toward me.
If the situation were turned around, I would get laid and then have it out.
Money and romance have nothing to do with each other.
If we were flush and she just focused on the cash, then I would say it is a problem she has, perhaps OCD, and needs to be looked at.

10-05-2007, 12:48 PM	#9
rkzenrage Guest Posts: n/a	I can tell you, in our current situation, if I spent $50 on a bunch of flowers she would be pissed... just pissed... only pissed and would be correct to be. If my feelings were hurt by it I would be an idiot for it. Romance is free, spending money we don't have to spend would be foolish and would have nothing to do with how much she cares about me or how romantic she is or feels toward me. If the situation were turned around, I would get laid and then have it out. Money and romance have nothing to do with each other. If we were flush and she just focused on the cash, then I would say it is a problem she has, perhaps OCD, and needs to be looked at.

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