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lumberjim · 08-30-2007, 10:13 AM

::PUTS ON HIP WADERS::

DanaC · 08-30-2007, 10:16 AM

Generally? I'd say not. I haven't experienced it in here myself. Eleswhere yes, but not here. I guess it depends on the nature of the confidence as to whether or not it's something you can genuinely guard against. If you have shared some part of your life story in confidence and that is spread, I'd say you got stung badly and there was nothing you could have done to prevent it other than be a better judge of character, and who after all can be said to have flaw-free judgement on that score?

If, however, you shared an opinion about someone else and that was the confidence which was broken, then it was avoidable by not saying anything about someone that you would be uncomfortable to say to that person's face.

I don't know what the confidence was which was broken.

monster · 08-30-2007, 10:16 AM

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Originally Posted by lumberjim

what are you trying to say, Flint? Lassie fell down the well? She needs our help? lead the way, girl!

Flint · 08-30-2007, 10:20 AM

If you have a "problem" with a message board, you're doing it wrong.

elSicomoro · 08-30-2007, 10:21 AM

*sycamore stumbles out of bed*

Shit...what time is it? 20 after 10...gotta be at work at 11.

*reads this thread a couple of times*

Man...I was having some really fucked up dreams last night. Now I get here and it's like a continuation of the dreams!

I need some breakfast...

lumberjim · 08-30-2007, 10:21 AM

she revealed the fact that he sent her a pm -asking her not to be mean to him anymore, the little dear. i can see why he was so upset. did I call him Nancy yet? cuz......Nancy!

Spexxvet · 08-30-2007, 10:32 AM

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Originally Posted by Flint

If you have a "problem" with a message board, you're doing it wrong.

It's a learning process, like everything else

Flint · 08-30-2007, 10:33 AM

Your face is a learning process.

Spexxvet · 08-30-2007, 10:36 AM

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Originally Posted by lumberjim

she revealed the fact that he sent her a pm -asking her not to be mean to him anymore, the little dear. i can see why he was so upset. did I call him Nancy yet? cuz......Nancy!

Liar.

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Originally Posted by Flint

Your face is a learning process.

So's your butt.

lumberjim · 08-30-2007, 10:38 AM

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Originally Posted by Flint

Your face is a learning process.

now THAT is subtlety

srsly

lumberjim · 08-30-2007, 10:43 AM

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Originally Posted by Spexxvet

Liar.

Mook

Spexxvet · 08-30-2007, 11:05 AM

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Originally Posted by lumberjim

Mook

There's the sublety that I've come to expect from you. And the constructive exchange of information. Unfortunately, it doesn't make your statement any truer.

lumberjim · 08-30-2007, 11:12 AM

wang

Flint · 08-30-2007, 11:50 AM

...

yesman065 · 08-30-2007, 04:03 PM

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Originally Posted by spex

I didn't want to start a board-wide arguement. I wanted to know if betraying a confidence was standard procedure at the Cellar.

Then why didn't you ask that in the first place? I know we haven't really had much interaction, but it did look like a cheap shot after the "rest of the story" came out. Not that I care, I've given and received plenty myself.

08-30-2007, 10:13 AM	#16
lumberjim I can hear my ears Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 25,571	::PUTS ON HIP WADERS:: __________________ This body holding me reminds me of my own mortality Embrace this moment, remember We are eternal, all this pain is an illusion ~MJKeenan

08-30-2007, 10:20 AM	#19
Flint Snowflake Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Dystopia Posts: 13,136	If you have a "problem" with a message board, you're doing it wrong. __________________ **************** There's a level of facility that everyone needs to accomplish, and from there it's a matter of deciding for yourself how important ultra-facility is to your expression. ... I found, like Joseph Campbell said, if you just follow whatever gives you a little joy or excitement or awe, then you're on the right track. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Terry Bozzio**

08-30-2007, 10:21 AM	#21
lumberjim I can hear my ears Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 25,571	she revealed the fact that he sent her a pm -asking her not to be mean to him anymore, the little dear. i can see why he was so upset. did I call him Nancy yet? cuz......Nancy! __________________ This body holding me reminds me of my own mortality Embrace this moment, remember We are eternal, all this pain is an illusion ~MJKeenan

08-30-2007, 10:33 AM	#23
Flint Snowflake Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Dystopia Posts: 13,136	Your face is a learning process. __________________ **************** There's a level of facility that everyone needs to accomplish, and from there it's a matter of deciding for yourself how important ultra-facility is to your expression. ... I found, like Joseph Campbell said, if you just follow whatever gives you a little joy or excitement or awe, then you're on the right track. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Terry Bozzio**

08-30-2007, 11:12 AM	#28
lumberjim I can hear my ears Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 25,571	wang __________________ This body holding me reminds me of my own mortality Embrace this moment, remember We are eternal, all this pain is an illusion ~MJKeenan

08-30-2007, 10:16 AM	#17
DanaC We have to go back, Kate! Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Yorkshire Posts: 25,964	Generally? I'd say not. I haven't experienced it in here myself. Eleswhere yes, but not here. I guess it depends on the nature of the confidence as to whether or not it's something you can genuinely guard against. If you have shared some part of your life story in confidence and that is spread, I'd say you got stung badly and there was nothing you could have done to prevent it other than be a better judge of character, and who after all can be said to have flaw-free judgement on that score? If, however, you shared an opinion about someone else and that was the confidence which was broken, then it was avoidable by not saying anything about someone that you would be uncomfortable to say to that person's face. I don't know what the confidence was which was broken.

08-30-2007, 10:21 AM	#20
elSicomoro Person who doesn't update the user title Join Date: Jan 2001 Posts: 12,486	sycamore stumbles out of bed Shit...what time is it? 20 after 10...gotta be at work at 11. reads this thread a couple of times Man...I was having some really fucked up dreams last night. Now I get here and it's like a continuation of the dreams! I need some breakfast...

08-30-2007, 11:50 AM	#29
Flint Snowflake Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Dystopia Posts: 13,136	... Attached Images __________________ **************** There's a level of facility that everyone needs to accomplish, and from there it's a matter of deciding for yourself how important ultra-facility is to your expression. ... I found, like Joseph Campbell said, if you just follow whatever gives you a little joy or excitement or awe, then you're on the right track. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Terry Bozzio**

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