The Sex Thread

[DucksNuts]

arse hole

[kerosene]

PW, with the oral thing, make sure she knows how much you enjoy doing it with her. I know I have been self conscious about it in the past. Help her focus on herself and what she is feeling down there at the moment. It is easy to get distracted with thoughts like "do I smell/taste funny?" or "Is he getting annoyed at this, right now?"

[DucksNuts]

Originally Posted by Perry Winkle

I guess I wasn't clear, she hasn't had an orgasm. Ever. Period. She doesn't know what it feels like to come... It's definitely a big thing in her mind.

Oh yeah, then she definitely needs to spend a bit of time getting to know herself....for *most* women, its a focus thing (or lack there of?).

Originally Posted by DucksNuts

arse hole

That was directed at LJ too, I thought I posted it, but got distracted at work

[lumberjim]

Originally Posted by DucksNuts

arse hole

ballooooon knot!

[xoxoxoBruce]

It's pretty simple with men, but when a woman says she's never had an orgasm, with or without a partner, how does she know?

[Perry Winkle]

Originally Posted by xoxoxoBruce

It's pretty simple with men, but when a woman says she's never had an orgasm, with or without a partner, how does she know?

That's the thing. She'll build up to the highest peak I've seen her at then wind down. Then she'll tell me to stop because things have become really sensitive. Sounds like an orgasm to me, but who am I to say.

[limey]

Originally Posted by Perry Winkle

That's the thing. She'll build up to the highest peak I've seen her at then wind down. Then she'll tell me to stop because things have become really sensitive. Sounds like an orgasm to me, but who am I to say.

Some orgasms are all big and explosive, and some are almost a let-down after the big build-up, but I'm just as sensitive afterwards either way. You don't have to stop caressing her, just leave the clitoris alone for a few (three?) minutes, and then gently give it another go (if you're up for it) ...

[DucksNuts]

Originally Posted by Perry Winkle

That's the thing. She'll build up to the highest peak I've seen her at then wind down. Then she'll tell me to stop because things have become really sensitive. Sounds like an orgasm to me, but who am I to say.

Hmmm, it does sound like an orgasm....I'm tipping, she's coming and its getting a bit lost in the after effects, because youre still down there. Then the sensitivity kicks in.

I've had that happen with newish partners.