QUESTIONS ABOUT FRIENDSHIP

[DanaC]

I wouldn't expect a heathen to keep their promises, but I do expect Christians to, since they have been born again.

Umm...I'm an atheist. I take my promises seriously.

> I think you should stalk her until she begs you for divine mercy and to be lead back into the flock. Can't you see when she needs your help? If she's a friend you need to make her repent. It's your duty.

it is my duty to urge her repent and to pull her out of the fire, anyone for that matter, if they err from the truth, so that they can be saved.

My guess is that's one sure fire way of making sure she never wants to come near you again.

The only advice I can offer you Gannet, is follow your instincts. It may be that your instincts lead you to act in a way that doesn't satisfactorily resolve the situation, or it may be that your instincts lead you to act in a way that does satisfactorily resolve the situation, but, at least you will have been true to yourself. That's all you can really do. You have no way of crawling inside this person's head and reading their thoughts. You only know your own.