Identity

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Originally Posted by Ibram

I just wish I had some kind of gender I could identify as.

From your preceding posts, here and elsewhere, I'm not thinking your issue is really about gender identity. You haven't said anything indicating a particular discomfort or dislike of your manly bits, right?

You're also under some stress related to your relationship with Caro, and while you've indicated that you're feeling pretty much bi, you've not indicated that you've acted on that, although I certainly understand that any such opportunities would be very limited in Asia, because of the different cultural mores.

Just be you, don't try to be someone else's conceptualization of who you should be.