Weeeeeird Situation

[SteveDallas]

Originally Posted by DucksNuts

I ..just...feel...weird about the whole thing.

Probably not half as weird as the sister.

You knew that T was boning this other woman, right? And you didn't tell K about it? Ask yourself why not.

What is T's greater offense against K? Sticking it to this other woman? Or buying her a car?

The way I see it, if you, for whatever reason--friendship with K, revenge on T--whatever--feel you should tell K about the other woman, then fine, go for it. I don't see that the purchase of the car changes the situation from your standpoint. I understand you probably feel like you're aiding and abetting by handling some of the paperwork. But that's your job; it's just that you know more about T than you normally do about your customers. (Besides, if your boss is that tight with T, I'm sure there was at least some small consideration.)

Should you be bothered? Yeah, probably so, but I don't see you have any grounds to judge how T spends his money. Maybe you have a case for telling K about the other woman, but the way I see it that's a totally separate consideration from the deal with the car. Really, your only choice is to say something to K or keep your mouth shut. If T is buying a car, he's buying a car.