Mutual Enjoyment Sex Question....

[jmf]

that's pretty much what I figured... I just don't know. I've raised the topic of her fantasies and so forth and it's looking like an uphill battle. I'd actually really enjoy trying new things that she suggests but she has not been particularly forthcoming as yet. Part of the problem is that she ALWAYS gets off a couple of times via the standard channels... I don't want to interupt that, but I can understand the lack of motivation in trying something new. She also tends to be a little embarrassed about discussing this stuff. A female friend of mine offered that it may be the result of a mental conflict between the new-age-feminist ideal about how a woman should think of herself in a relationship and the natural feminine feelings about being a woman and enjoying sex and being sexy.

I'm workin' on it...