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May Ter Dee
Join Date: Jul 2006
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Now he wishes that he would of. If he had to do it over again he would have. Does this have any bearing on the situation? If I position myself as one who can understand that people make mistakes, then aren't I doing the very thing I said that I wouldn't? It might help to know that he is 6 yrs younger than I am and hasn't had the life experiences I have had. |
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I hear them call the tide
Join Date: Dec 2005
Location: Perpetual Chaos
Posts: 30,852
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Do you?
Really? Why? And if you can't answer why directly (and how many of us can?), how about what signs tell you that you love him? How would you argue the point that it's love rather than lust/fear/wannabe-syndrome/relationship-addiction/whatever..... (not intended as a criticism, more a catalyst to getting over him)
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The future is unwritten
Join Date: Oct 2002
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Look, it will probably be a month before you feel any better. That's ten times the three days you made it to work. Even then you probably won't think it's any better, but you'll suddenly realize you're going for 4, 6 maybe 8 hours without thinking about it. And you'll have days you'll relapse and just want to stay in bed. Maybe even do that once or twice, especially around holidays, birthdays, special dates. But you'll get over that too. Just stay away from him and stop looking for a way to excuse him or blame yourself. You can and will do this.... then live happily ever after.
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