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Radical Centrist
Join Date: Jan 2001
Location: Cottage of Prussia
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That's instinctive behavior.
But you gotta remember, she knows that. She knows that, given opportunity, you'll hit it and thus stay involved. |
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Esnohplad Semaj Ton
Join Date: Feb 2005
Location: A little south of sanity
Posts: 2,259
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Serious advice: go to some derby bouts, there's a league in Chicago. Lots of cool chicks there.
If you don't have a car, you can probably get a bunch of guys to go and carpool. I mean, take a look at those girls. More serious advice: If you go, wear some black. |
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Encroaching on your decrees
Join Date: Feb 2004
Location: An island within the south-west coast of Scotland
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(for when you break up again)Take this advice from an older woman who has many years' experience observing the opposite sex: I can tell you what I find sexy, it's very simple.
A guy doing what he does well with unconscious confidence. A couple of examples? 1 A fat, ornery kind of guy playing rock and roll guitar, so SO DAMN sexy! 2 A couple of my farmer neighbours getting the bales of hay off a field and onto a trailer - like ballet on tractors. I can't explain it - it's the unconscious confidence.
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still says videotape
Join Date: Feb 2001
Posts: 26,813
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Guess who is running the relationship now? You are in no way an equal partner in this. Do you really want to be the less important person?
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Extraordinary Machine
Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: Outside of Washington, DC
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Of course, in the experience of almost everyone I know, hooking up with exes has led to bad things (mostly just endless drama and an even worse breakup the next time). Maybe Fresh will be the same way, maybe not, but it's kind of fucked up to make sweeping judgments based on a haiku-length internet post. |
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still says videotape
Join Date: Feb 2001
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The future is unwritten
Join Date: Oct 2002
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