I'm a middle school kid again

[freshnesschronic]

I can't tell what is real advice anymore.

[Perry Winkle]

Everything I say is true, but I may mislead you on purpose.

[Griff]

... so I shouldn't suggest pushing one down on the playground then?

[SteveDallas]

Originally Posted by freshnesschronic

I can't tell what is real advice anymore.

For the record, I was not suggesting you use Lincoln's line. Unless, perhaps, you're attending the Historical Society Cotillion.

[xoxoxoBruce]

Originally Posted by freshnesschronic

I can't tell what is real advice anymore.

That's because there isn't any, every male in the world, was still trying to figure it out when the next stage of his life took over.
Everyone is different, some are very bold, some are very shy, some are comfortable hanging with girls.

The ones that can hang with them, get to meet more of them, but that doesn't mean they have more chance of connecting. They could consider you a confidant, like a brother, and most girls don't date their brothers.

The only thing that will allow you to get over her is time. During that time just try to keep busy amusing yourself. When the time is right, one of them will cull you out of the herd. Then you'll be sorry you didn't make better use of your single time, because you won't have any time of your own, anymore.