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Old 02-16-2007, 04:57 AM   #16
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Why would you do it now if you wouldnt do it then SG?

Curious, thats all.
Some of my thought process is missing from my post. It should really read:

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I'll do it! Pass him my phone number please.....

I probably wouldn't actually. IRL I have turned down trips to Japan etc etc
I like the idea of a courtesan lifestyle, but when it comes to cold hard reality I couldn't have sex with someone I didn't desire, or fake interest where there was none.

And if the interest was there, I'd only fall for him & end up thoroughly miserable because he's married. Then again, I'm miserable anyway - maybe I'm talking myself into it after all
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Old 02-16-2007, 09:50 AM   #17
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You did say he wanted a 'fun' companion. Maybe that's all he wants!
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Old 02-16-2007, 09:54 AM   #18
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Married? Too many worms in that can!
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Old 02-16-2007, 11:28 AM   #19
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Give him MY number. I could use the vacation and you would be amazed at how many married "straight" men will hook up with a gay man on the sly.
I've heard every excuse you can think of from "My wife won't do that, so..." to "I just need a ______ while my wife is _____".
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Old 02-16-2007, 11:40 AM   #20
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I didn't want to have sex with 2 out of the 3 men.
it was gonna be all 3 or nothing!
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Old 02-16-2007, 12:06 PM   #21
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And if the interest was there, I'd only fall for him & end up thoroughly miserable because he's married. Then again, I'm miserable anyway - maybe I'm talking myself into it after all
Then you'd have to drive hundreds of miles wearing a diaper! :p
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Old 02-16-2007, 02:26 PM   #22
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For the record....

I am very much in...umm...lust with the Army dude and wont be pursuing this *arrangement*.
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Old 02-16-2007, 02:30 PM   #23
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Actually IRL I have turned down trips to Japan, China and Spain which were offered all expenses paid.
Holding out for a trip to:

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Philly suburbs
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Old 02-16-2007, 04:51 PM   #24
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Are you calling me a Loser foot3??? :p
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Old 02-16-2007, 04:55 PM   #25
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I dunno Ducks. I find myself in a quandry lately. The whole, sanctity of marriage and all that.

I will say though, that if the wife knows what's going on then it's ok, or if they have an open relationship then that's ok too. It's only if it's on the sly that I've got a bigger problem these days. Not so far as you would go in this instance, but the husband. Know what I mean?
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Old 02-16-2007, 06:09 PM   #26
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Are you calling me a Loser foot3??? :p
what? me? never.no no no no no no.


yes.
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Old 02-16-2007, 06:40 PM   #27
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Old 02-17-2007, 02:25 AM   #28
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I will.
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Old 02-17-2007, 10:49 AM   #29
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Here in the States, we call this guy a "Sugar Daddy". Nothing wrong with that.
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Old 02-19-2007, 08:10 AM   #30
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Just a few queastons?

<paranoid-what-if?-mode>

Traveling?


Via what? Plane?, Boat? You do realize that "all expenses paid" means he "owns" you and if you're in the wrong country - he really "owns" you and could give you away. (Yes, slavery still exists in some countries and this scenario has been reported to have happened). Even if that *didn't* happen, I bet you won't have enough money and/or resources to get back home if you were dumped somewhere.

If you travel via boat, you won't leave much of a paper trail; If you are an unpaid "companion" you won't leave much of a paper trail.


What kind of business is he in? Does it involve dealing with middle eastern countries for oil? Heads of state? How do people around him act? Does he usually get what he wants...? And when he doesn't .. what happens..? What of the wife...she could be evil too...

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