Getting over it: how to do it?

[xoxoxoBruce]

Originally Posted by disenchanted

Makes sense, but some days it feels like I'm a half step up (and a shanty and a manual typewriter) away from writing manifestos or something.

At some point, this whole "taking a break" thing might hit a different extreme.

Why is that? If you are doing what you choose and avoiding things that are annoying you shouldn't be drawn to manifesto writing.

Unless... by avoiding the annoyances you're just delaying what you feel is an inevitable confrontation? That can be a confrontation with you're own, standards, goals, dreams, desires, beliefs, or whatever. Probably not with the chick that done you wrong, however.

Or.... you feel you've been wronged and want to get even. Take out your anger and frustration on somebody.... anybody?

Possibly....you're horny as hell and have some sort of hangup about masturbation that gives you more feelings of guilt than relief?

Maybe.... you're a candyass, chickenshit, coward, that's afraid of getting your heart broken again.

Seriously though, you decided on a post breakup course of action and took it. But you seem unhappy with what you're doing, or at least the result.
Remember life is a smörgåsbord. Try something, if you don't like it don't waste time, just try something else. Take care of #1.
Don't forget, before you find a solution.... you have to make a brutally honest assessment of the problem. Otherwise you'll never be happy with any solution you create.

Keep us posted on your progress. Yes, there will be progress...I got faith.