Reprinted advice

Putting this into the first person for me is incorrect. This works both ways for each and is not about a specific event of ours, as stated in the post. We both do that all the time, I actually brought something up that I accepted an apology for about a month ago. She has done the same in the past. There was no "chiding" we are not children and are rarely assholes about it... we just try to avoid a second argument about it and discuss the fact that the issue is not resolved... again, as stated in the post. Did you read the whole thing?
Thanks for participating though.