Getting over it: how to do it?

Trilby · 01-27-2007, 10:57 AM

I'm just going to throw this out there: If I read correctly, he wanted you when you didn't want him (begged you, even) and then when you decided to stick it out and work at it, he dropped you. He's a drama queen who only wants what he can't have--the moment he has it, he doesn't want it. The excuse of, "I can't handle the discord!" is just an excuse for him to leave coz he wanted to leave you anyway (after he hooked you, that is) Classic eff'd up behavior. Do NOT have children with this guy. You dodged a bullit. You should congratulate yourself.

limey · 01-27-2007, 12:08 PM

I tell myself "This is THE most painful thing I've ever experienced - but I WILL get over it".
Time is what you need, and while you're waiting repeat the above as necessary.

01-27-2007, 10:57 AM	#1
Trilby Slattern of the Swail Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 15,654	I'm just going to throw this out there: If I read correctly, he wanted you when you didn't want him (begged you, even) and then when you decided to stick it out and work at it, he dropped you. He's a drama queen who only wants what he can't have--the moment he has it, he doesn't want it. The excuse of, "I can't handle the discord!" is just an excuse for him to leave coz he wanted to leave you anyway (after he hooked you, that is) Classic eff'd up behavior. Do NOT have children with this guy. You dodged a bullit. You should congratulate yourself. __________________ In Barrie's play and novel, the roles of fairies are brief: they are allies to the Lost Boys, the source of fairy dust and ...They are portrayed as dangerous, whimsical and extremely clever but quite hedonistic. "Shall I give you a kiss?" Peter asked and, jerking an acorn button off his coat, solemnly presented it to her. —James Barrie Wimminfolk they be tricksy. - ZenGum

01-27-2007, 12:08 PM	#2
limey Encroaching on your decrees Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: An island within the south-west coast of Scotland Posts: 7,016	I tell myself "This is THE most painful thing I've ever experienced - but I WILL get over it". Time is what you need, and while you're waiting repeat the above as necessary. __________________ Living it up on the edge ... of civilisation, within the southwest coast of

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