Uh oh, scared him off??

[DucksNuts]

Well, he flew back to Darwin yesterday and we left things up in the air, but will talk about it over the next week or so.

Problem was this trip, he had to spread himself soooo thinly. With Iraq, there will only be one more time this year that he can see his kids, so he had to try and cram in as much as possible with them, his family that he hasnt seen since the middle of last month, and me.

We had a bit of a chat yesterday before he left, and he's kinda thinking about the big (well HUGE) picture now....like.....is it his right to uproot families to make it work?...he gets shoved from pillar to post with his postings - what will happen with that? I have a great job and network here - us being together will effect that....etc etc etc.

He seems to think *he* has to make all those decisions and decide whats best for me and the boys - why do men think that?

I'm thinking, once he gets back home and there is 4000+kms between us, he will decide that its all too hard and thats it.

My boss (in his infinite wisdom - do gooder gone wrong!!), gave me 3 tickets to Darwin at the end of this month for a week as part of my Christmas Bonus.

Problem is, Army dude will probably be away for 3 of them transporting weapons from Sydney.

.....I can see you guys becoming very familiar with my failed love life :p