will i ever learn?

Sundae · 12-11-2006, 09:08 AM

Oh I have SO been through "love is not enough"! Also "I'll take what I want from you because it's on offer"

It doesn't matter whether he's manipulating you deliberately, or just being himself - if you are liable to get hurt then back away.

I know it's hard, and your own brain and heart are the enemies within, but don't listen to the "What if...?" voices. It's over. It's over for a reason. You deserve someone whose behaviour doesn't cause you problems. You're not saying he is a bad man just because he isn't right for you, any more than you are a bad person for not being right for him.

Whether he is depressed and loves you, or is actually after something is neither here nor there. Think about what you want and move on. It's for the best. Twenty years from now your biographer will spell his name wrong.

12-11-2006, 09:08 AM	#4
Sundae polaroid of perfection Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: West Yorkshire Posts: 24,185	Oh I have SO been through "love is not enough"! Also "I'll take what I want from you because it's on offer" It doesn't matter whether he's manipulating you deliberately, or just being himself - if you are liable to get hurt then back away. I know it's hard, and your own brain and heart are the enemies within, but don't listen to the "What if...?" voices. It's over. It's over for a reason. You deserve someone whose behaviour doesn't cause you problems. You're not saying he is a bad man just because he isn't right for you, any more than you are a bad person for not being right for him. Whether he is depressed and loves you, or is actually after something is neither here nor there. Think about what you want and move on. It's for the best. Twenty years from now your biographer will spell his name wrong. __________________ Life's hard you know, so strike a pose on a Cadillac

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