Why oh why?

[Dagney]

Originally Posted by Hoof Hearted

It seems attitude IS everything...
You know...both Hubby and I admitted to having given up on finding anyone when we found each other. Sometimes, I think if you look too hard, you tend to pass over many good oportunities from being too critical. If you just let it happen, it happens. You DO have to be receptive to it, and recognize it when you see it...maybe when a person relaxes, that is picked up by members of the opposite sex as being confident and/or available?

I will TOTALLY agree with this statement.

Earlier this year, I had decided that it was my lot in life to be a single woman, and to be happy with that little bit of destiny. So, I started finding what it was in life that made ME happy - instead of trying to make everyone else around me happy. I decided to 'enter' society instead of standing on the fringes and watching everyone else, and I ended up finding someone that I hit it off with instantly - we met as friends, but quickly fell in love.

I truly think that 'wanting' someone so badly puts off an air of desparation that other people can sense. You may not realize it - and you may not even be desparate for someone in your life - however part of you subconsciously is searching for that 'other half' in every person that you meet, and that can be picked up on by other people.

That said, I recommend letting go - take each day for what it is, and make yourself happy - you may be surprised with who falls in your lap.

Kellie

85 days till the big M!