So, there's this girl I like............

[9th Engineer]

Originally Posted by capnhowdy

Tip from an old geezer:

Best way to find a woman is not to look for one. Most women would actually rather seduce the man. Just be available... from a distance. If she wants to play you'll be the first to know. Main thing is discretion. Keep it to yourself.

I like that advice, it's actually working better than any other approach I've ever taken. Tried being a nice guy (not really spineless but not bold and intrepid either) for the first two years of highschool, got nowhere. Basically gave up for the second two (got beaten out more like it for a comment about how I thought the addition of a womens shotput section on our track team didn't make sense) and now I just don't persue any relationship more serious than a study-buddy. Guess what happened as soon as I stopped trying? Boggled my mind at first, then started making sense.