Fear of Loss

Ibby · 07-31-2006, 10:12 AM

For me it's fear of change. I'm scared she'll be a completely different person tomorrow... or, more realistically, a completely different person three years from now when we're old enough to get married. Or just as bad, I'll be completely different and she'll dump me anyway.

skysidhe · 07-31-2006, 01:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Ibram

For me it's fear of change. I'm scared she'll be a completely different person tomorrow... or, more realistically, a completely different person three years from now when we're old enough to get married. Or just as bad, I'll be completely different and she'll dump me anyway.

That's normal stuff I think. Young people have to change to become the person they are suppose to become.

I think I would strive to have the love continue in whatever form it takes. Maybe it will or will not be in the way you imagine but to be open for whatever course it takes means you get to keep the love. The love remains whatever it becomes.

I have to 'kapish' that alot myself.

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