Bad choices of lovers

Beestie · 07-07-2006, 12:35 AM

I always figured that a girl's first love is her dad (even tho in the way that little girls love their daddy). If her dad is an abusive/irresponsble ass then she'll be prone to fall for any guy that a) she is attracted to that b) treats her like her father did.

Its not that women don't think they deserve a nice guy its that the nice guys aren't interesting to them - nice guys can't reach their deeper emotional zones and a deep attraction to one just isn't going to happen.

Having an asshole for a father really is a curse that follows women around for the rest of their lives.

DucksNuts · 07-07-2006, 05:35 AM

I'm the ..."ohh bad boys are so sexy" type of girl, then I figure out they are arseholes (well doh! thats what attracted me to them in the first place)....so I dump them or they cheat and I think ..."I need a nice guy"...but then another bad boy comes along

BUT!!! there may be hope for me yet.

MsSparkie · 07-07-2006, 07:00 AM

I hope you will all read my post in the "How you become prey to a charmer/abuser" thread. Open the attachment, It's long but very informative.
Perhaps print it and read it later.

:-)

07-07-2006, 12:35 AM	#1
Beestie -◊\|≡·∙■·∙≡\|◊- Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Parts unknown. Posts: 4,081	I always figured that a girl's first love is her dad (even tho in the way that little girls love their daddy). If her dad is an abusive/irresponsble ass then she'll be prone to fall for any guy that a) she is attracted to that b) treats her like her father did. Its not that women don't think they deserve a nice guy its that the nice guys aren't interesting to them - nice guys can't reach their deeper emotional zones and a deep attraction to one just isn't going to happen. Having an asshole for a father really is a curse that follows women around for the rest of their lives. __________________ ♠ ♥ ♣ ♦

07-07-2006, 07:00 AM	#3
MsSparkie Curious Sagittarius Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Toronto, Canada Posts: 302	I hope you will all read my post in the "How you become prey to a charmer/abuser" thread. Open the attachment, It's long but very informative. Perhaps print it and read it later. :-) __________________ ~There is a forest in an acorn......

07-07-2006, 05:35 AM	#2
DucksNuts Bitchy Little Brat Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Queensland, Australia Posts: 5,067	I'm the ..."ohh bad boys are so sexy" type of girl, then I figure out they are arseholes (well doh! thats what attracted me to them in the first place)....so I dump them or they cheat and I think ..."I need a nice guy"...but then another bad boy comes along BUT!!! there may be hope for me yet.

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