Can you contact the police to contact disablilty services or senior services ? Approach it as a 'welfare' check?
Make it seem like it is in her benefit that someone see what's happening with her?
I know it's about feeling violated. The story you told shows how off balance she is and you are right in feeling awful about it.
I would think a camera and a threat to your son would be grounds for investigation. The only way to relieve this is to get others involved in her welfare. I know it dosn't sound fair but sometimes you have to use the system to fight the system. Tell disability or senior services how worried you are for this person. The police can help.
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