Do guys really care about a girls sexual history?

[xoxoxoBruce]

I see a problem here that everyone, including myself, is painting views with broad brushes. People are individuals, all different, all unique.

Therefore the question that was first posed, really can't be answered.

[DucksNuts]

Originally Posted by xoxoxoBruce

Therefore the question that was first posed, really can't be answered.

Originally Posted by xoxoxoBruce

I see a problem here that everyone, including myself, is painting views with broad brushes. People are individuals, all different, all unique.

Therefore the question that was first posed, really can't be answered.

Exactly, Sully's description was insulting to everyone and not my experience at all. I married my college girlfriend while still in school, we dated for three years and are still married thirteen years later.

[P-Man]

"Guys in college always look for the first bang they can get, they take it even if she doesn't wanna give it." (kinda sounds like rape doesn't it?)

-From my experience, that's not really true. I will graduate this Sunday from The Ohio State University and after spending five years here (I had to stretch the typical four year program), I've learned a thing or two. Almost every guy I know is looking for love. Not just a quick bang. Not just a night of pleasure.

However, most of us are incapable of turning down easy sex. Only problem with easy sex is afterwards, it takes the girl out of the running for potential girlfriend material. Me and my friends know that if we got it easy, chances are that there's a lot of other guys that are getting it easy. And that's not attractive among my circle of friends.

This is an ongoing discussion between me and my guy friends. Where have all the good girls gone? Where are the women that make you wait for sex? The ones that make you earn their respect before they give up their body? Those are the ones we want to settle down with. Guys like a girl that challenges them. Me and my friends respect those girls more and when it comes down to it, those are the ones that we'll probably marry.

The issues of sexuality between men and women will always be unequal. Not because of any social, cultural or inheriting condition but because of biology.

Women CHOOSE!
Men wait to be chosen

It is this 180 degree difference that gives rise to the false impression of a double standard. It’s not a double standard but a fact of our biology.

Sex does not take place unless a criminal act occurred or the women choose to agree to sex. This reproductive power is a Darwinian evolutionary response. Women have culled the gene pool for millions of years through this sexual power of choice.

A women that sleeps around is consider a slut because of the low moral character that defines there use of there sexual advantage. This reckless use of power and contempt for it is a character issues that will arise through out there life in the form of critical decision making around many other of life’s challenges and is reflective of there values and beliefs. All of us are walking billboard displays of our values and beliefs.

Furthermore, there is the issue of bonding. A woman that has many sexual partners is unlikely to ever form deep physical or spiritual bonding with a man. The divorce rate is over 50% and its rise in our culture runs parallel to women’s so called “sexual revolution.” Statistics show that 80% of divorces are imitated by women.

Men do not deserve the reputation of “players.” A small, very small, minority does but the attitude that men do it so its ok if I do it is fatuous. Most men want a deep committed relationship so they can have a steady supply of sex. Ask most men if they would choose sparse and random sexual encounters or steady tail, they will choose the steady tail 9 X out of 10. Men are vastly less promiscuous as women and have been for eons.

The biggest secret women hold is there sexual history. If men knew the real number they would be shocked. For every 1 sexual partner a women admits to, multiply that by 5. Its that sexual power thing. Women have it and men don’t. A 30 year old American woman is likely to have had 30 to 50 sexual partners. An American woman at age 25 could have as high as 30.

Think of women’s sexuality like a bank. Women own the bank. They can write checks anytime they want as much as they want anywhere they want. Men are like borrowers that have to apply for a loan. Men have to show the bank they are worthy of the loan and deserve credit.

Any bank that gives away the store doesn’t appear to be a solvent concern and the decision process of the banker displays the banker’s character and moral center. Can the banker change? Sure. But like any thing else’s we value in life your history makes a difference. Your schools wants to know the history or your academic achievements, your employer your work record, the government your civil obedience. History matters.

Sorry girls, with great power goes greater responsibility.

[Pie]

Originally Posted by P-Man

Where are the women that make you wait for sex? The ones that make you earn their respect before they give up their body? Those are the ones we want to settle down with.

So, just out of curiosity, how long is long enough?

[footfootfoot]

Originally Posted by Pie

So, just out of curiosity, how long is long enough?

five and three quarter inches?

[morethanpretty]

Originally Posted by footfootfoot

five and three quarter inches?

aroused or not aroused? my boy's is about 3 pez sticks aroused...depends if he's cold and what not otherwise...

[Elspode]

Originally Posted by morethanpretty

aroused or not aroused? my boy's is about 3 pez sticks aroused...depends if he's cold and what not otherwise...

Is that Pez *pieces* or Pez *dispensers*? Either way... Oh...and, interesting measuring system you've got there, lady.