On the subject of love letters

KinkyVixen · 05-08-2006, 03:22 PM

I think if you know each other well enough the length of your letter is of no relevance. In my opinion it would be the words and expression you use in which you voice yourself that weighs more heavily. From my experience, women are able to express how they feel in words more easily, not saying that men can't, just that they do, or I do at least...and am just looking for some sort of confirmation to my beliefs - whether I am way off base or not - in return. And more than that, just honesty in general. I definitely do not believe in saying something just because you feel like you need to say it back, or because you feel like it's expected. Just be who you are...say what you feel, and do it respectfully. As I said before, at least in my opinion, length has no relevance.

charlene · 05-08-2006, 04:17 PM

Well said, KinkyVixen. I think women tend to put their feelings into words more often than men do, and sometimes men just don't understand the fact that it's just simply a statement of feelings.

Reply with what you feel, not what you think is expected. I, for one, find a few words much more meaningful than a whole page of words that I'm sure aren't from the heart.

DucksNuts · 05-08-2006, 05:05 PM

If I was the long love letter writing type, I wouldnt expect a similar letter in return.

Me, I'm the long waffley scattered letter writer and I am soooo glad I dont get like letters in return.

I would just avoid anything along the lines of "I concur" or "Me too"

Honestly, girls I know, like to know where they stand and if they can read about it in black & white...all the better.

Just say what you feel comfortable saying, dont jazz it up too much, if thats not the kinda person you are in real life.

Good Luck

05-08-2006, 03:22 PM	#1
KinkyVixen Marching In! Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Wichita, KS Posts: 580	I think if you know each other well enough the length of your letter is of no relevance. In my opinion it would be the words and expression you use in which you voice yourself that weighs more heavily. From my experience, women are able to express how they feel in words more easily, not saying that men can't, just that they do, or I do at least...and am just looking for some sort of confirmation to my beliefs - whether I am way off base or not - in return. And more than that, just honesty in general. I definitely do not believe in saying something just because you feel like you need to say it back, or because you feel like it's expected. Just be who you are...say what you feel, and do it respectfully. As I said before, at least in my opinion, length has no relevance. __________________ "Smile before bed.You'll sleep better."

05-08-2006, 04:17 PM	#2
charlene Future world traveller Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: wrong side of the planet Posts: 24	Well said, KinkyVixen. I think women tend to put their feelings into words more often than men do, and sometimes men just don't understand the fact that it's just simply a statement of feelings. Reply with what you feel, not what you think is expected. I, for one, find a few words much more meaningful than a whole page of words that I'm sure aren't from the heart.

05-08-2006, 05:05 PM	#3
DucksNuts Bitchy Little Brat Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Queensland, Australia Posts: 5,067	If I was the long love letter writing type, I wouldnt expect a similar letter in return. Me, I'm the long waffley scattered letter writer and I am soooo glad I dont get like letters in return. I would just avoid anything along the lines of "I concur" or "Me too" Honestly, girls I know, like to know where they stand and if they can read about it in black & white...all the better. Just say what you feel comfortable saying, dont jazz it up too much, if thats not the kinda person you are in real life. Good Luck

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