Celebacy or Hot Meaningless Sex

[jojo]

Originally Posted by yesman065

I'm always in for hot sex, but the meaningless part just kills it for me - I feel like I need to have that connection with someone I'm intimate with and as some of you know from my prior posts the sex just for sex thing didn't really work out so well for me.

did you smile and feel exuberant the next day? or did you feel uneasy?

for all of us women out there-how can you ever have meaningless sex? i don't fit the needy or over-nurturing stereotypes that are sometimes associated with women and i don't think many of the women here do either, but i don't think i would be capable of "meaningless" sex. i would invariably feel a connection, or at the very least imagine that he does. while basking in the glow, i know i would take some part of it to heart. and no matter how little emotional connection i felt with the guy, i WOULD be hurt if i thought it was completely meaningless to him.
Brett's Honey, are you sure it was meaningless for your "fbuddy" (can't get myself to write it! ) cuz if it was meaningless to you, but not your partner, then it was possibly...hurtful?
methinks me overthinks everything!