What does THIS mean? :(

The creep! These types use "love" as a drug, Bri, they really do. Since they actually hate themselves deep inside, the only relief they can get from their self loathing is that temporary fix of first infatuation in another's eyes. Once that early rosy glow wears off and they'd have to admit to being a flawed human being and do the work of making a relationship last, they instead just go off on the prowl for a new victim. I call them skin walkers, shape shifters, and soul stalkers. At least you didn't invest 6 years of your life like I did, Bri. It could have been worse. And what did I tell you about running and not looking back because all you'd see would be him crunching down his latest victim? What a low life slime if he has, indeed, targeted that poor woman. She sounds very fragile and the way he'll use and discard her may very well push her over the edge to suicide. One of the ax murderers ex's DID attempt suicide over him, and the poor thing has pathetically held on with him through several other women, one of whom was me (I discovered this AFTER the fact). Yeah, he's got the heady rush of a new romance, but at what price for this poor girl?

Personally, I advise casting spells - its quite cathartic. I am careful to wish for the person only to receive back everything they gave me - no more and no less. That way I don't take any bad karma on myself by wishing them more harm than what they deserve. And what could be more just than for a person to recieve the treatment that he himself dishes out?

I'd avoid that other board for a while, Brianna. It sounds like reading it may only cause you further pain. Take a look at those sites I mentioned above. They include lots of fun and legal ideas for revenge (some are out there, but others are OK). Those two will help you work off some of the anger and pain. I especially reccomend turning him in to the "Don't Date Him Girl" site. Its a blast!

Hang in there and no driving thru fast food places, OK?